Sunday, January 31, 2016

Sweet "16" Lovers Giveaway

And who's ready for Valentine's Day? Not you? Well, you better get ready. It's coming. You don't have to do anything fancy (unless you want to). Just take the time to acknowledge the day and the love it brings with it. Now, I treat my husband throughout the year, but I do take time to do something a little extra on that day. 

This year we are doing Sweet "16" Lovers giveaway. You will have our social network pages to get the rules for the giveaway. 

The giveaway will begin on Monday, February 1st thru Thursday, February 10th. The cut-off time for entries on February 10 is 12 noon CST.

A lucky wife (and hubby) will receive the following:

1) A sweet a beautiful key chain called "Wine is for Lovers" 
2) A dozen of chocolate Strawberries
3) A Lovely Red Lipstick from Mary Kay
4) A Vibrating Ring Sex Toy
5) 10 Naughty Adult Coupons 

Thank you to our sponsors. Please make sure you support them and follow them! 

Angel Jones owner of Shea's Sweets 

Trina McCall owner of Simply Tempting

Sasha Maples Johns of True Vine Gifts

Looking forward to the entries!!!


Tuesday, January 19, 2016

Goal Planning for your Marriage!

Do you have goals in for your marriage? Where will you be at in 1 year? 3 years? 5 years? Have you ever sat down with your spouse to make goals for your marriage? Is that important to do? You make goals for yourself, so why not for your marriage. You really don't want to stay in the same box for your entire marriage. 

Most couples don't even think about this bu sit down and discuss things that you want to see take place in your marriage. The main areas you should focus on are physical attractions, financial statuses, housing, job, legal and health matters, and most of all family planning. There's nothing better than planning for growth within your family, no matter what way it comes from. Yes, I know life happens and there are some things that we can't control. But what about the things that you can control? Why not have a plan for when they take place, you will know how to handle it. 

If you have the type of spouse that says, why don't you handle that stuff and just let me know when I need to step in. That is NOT the proper way to do it because you are not in the marriage alone. Just let him know that this is something that you all need to do together and is very important for the marriage. Let him even know that he can take lead on it.  It doesn't have to take long. It can be done in a two or three part series. 

Items to have when the meeting takes place: 
1) Notebook
2) Pens
3) Highlighters 
4) Sticky Notes
5) Family Binder 

Make sure you pray together before making this list. You have to be on one accord with each other. This process is not to cause an argument but an opportunity to place your future down on paper and you both see it and go for it! Put it in a place where you both can go back and forward to make any necessary adjustments needed and accomplishments.  

You always want to see your marriage get better in the upcoming years.  Just like your personal goals, your marriage goals should be treated as a priority. Treat your marriage and family when a marriage goal is accomplished. It gives you something to strive for.  People don't plan to fail, they fail to plan! 

This is a part of "Sweet 16" for your marriage because this can be part of your goals to make your marriage sweeter in 2016. Don't be scared to leap forward for better. Being stuck in a box never gets you anywhere.  

Until next time, I'm off making goals for my marriage!! 


Friday, January 8, 2016

Intimacy!! Do you have it???

Webster's Dictionary tells us that intimacy means close familiarity or friendship. Intimacy to me means a close and unspoken relationship you have with someone. Being a wife, you would have intimacy with your husband of course.  But intimacy can go so many other ways in any type of relationship. Intimacy is not always about the physical part of a marriage/relationship, but getting to know that real person you encounter.  

Mental Intimacy The thought of knowing that you have a great relationship with your spouse is so rewarding. When you think about that you are married to this person that sees your ups and downs, but still loves your the same, is the best feeling ever. Holding hands can be under physical but mental as well. Why? Because when the two of you touch and sparkles goes through the both of your bodies, is exciting.  When you see his name come up on a text message or phone call, and you get butterflies and excited to hear his voice.  Taking in all of the things that he likes and dislikes and focus on those to make his life easy and the best marriage ever. 

Physical Intimacy Sex. Dancing. Touching. Kissing. Just a few physical categories for physical intimacy. We all know that sex in the most intense area of intimacy. I mean you are sharing each other bodies while expressing your emotions through a physical Who wouldn't enjoy that? I do!! Dancing is another intense moment. You can dance and tell your partner what you are thinking about and how much you care for them through dance. If you and your dancing partner connect while dancing, you both will be telling your love story through the arts! Touching (holding hands, hugging, high five each other, locking arms together while walking) are just a few areas on how touching can be expressed as intimacy. Heck, you can even play a fun game of tug-a-war.  

Spiritual Intimacy To have a spiritually intimate relationship, first and foremost it must be done with our Heavenly Father. Getting to know Him is the best thing not only for your life, but those affiliated with you. When He is on the inside of you, He will shine and others will see Him. That type of relationship is the most important one because your soul has to go somewhere when that day comes.  How can spiritual intimacy apply to your marriage? Well, when your spouse sees God in you, then that will not only draw him closer to God but closer to you. Pray together. Worship together. Study the bible together. When you obey God's Word, not only as a wife but as a woman, the intimacy when come naturally. 

If you haven't thought about these areas of intimacy, I advise you to start. Not only are they meaningful in your relationship but your personal life. It makes you shine. It makes you feel good. It makes you smile. It makes you feel relax. It makes you a better WOMAN!!! 

Until next time, I'm off to be intimate! 


Monday, January 4, 2016

Sweet 16!!

So when we think of the phrase "sweet 16" we think of maybe a female teenager turning the age 16, which starts a new era in her life. Well, why not apply that to your marriage? What do I mean? How to do that? Is there a party involved?  We are now in the year of 2016 and we are looking forward to the great things to come in and out of our lives, marriages, and families to make them BETTER!

Let's see...

Many of us had ups and downs in our marriages last year. Some probably thought that you weren't going to make it. Since we are striving for BETTER in 2016, celebrate the marriage date every month before and after your anniversary. You are making things "sweeter" and bringing the fire back in. It's not easy in our daily tasks of marriage, but we will make this thing work!

There are many things that you can do in your marriage to bring it back to the beginning when the both of you were so in love with each other. Just like when the female turns 16, that's a new era for her.  You can add to your era of marriage with a fresh start.  Add something new and fun. Do things that you both enjoy. Compliment each other regularly. Have several date nights. Try role-playing in the bedroom. Take an extended vacation. Turn off all electronic devices and enjoy each other's company. Try new things! 

We are going to present more things that will give you ideas to bring the sweetness back! STAY TUNED!! 

Until next time, 


Friday, January 1, 2016

Happy 2016!!

The first day of January 2016 is here. If you are reading this, you are blessed and should be thankful. Each year of our lives, we have experience a lot, many ups and downs. I know I have! But, today starts the first page of your life book for 2016. Make this year worth it!

I am determined to have a BIGGER & BETTER year ever!!! 

From my family to yours, Happy New Year!