Friday, February 28, 2014

I want to!

Thursday, February 27, 2014

Make your marriage a PRIORITY!!

Being HIS side chick!

Sooooo, I think this is a very sensitive subject to every woman....the side chick! There are a couple of shows that are on television that highlights the woman being the side chick (i.e. Scandal, Being Mary Jane, etc).  No woman wants to find out that her husband has a side chick. Urban Dictionary defines the side chick as the other woman; also known as the mistress; a female that is neither a male’s wife nor girlfriend who has relations with the male while he is in another relationship. Now I will admit, most women have been the side chick before. Guess what you can again but only inside your marriage.  That means only to your husband. Ephesians 5:22 says wives submit yourself to your OWN husband. How do you do this? I'm glad you asked. Now every and yes I said every woman has multiple personalities. So why not apply that to your marriage? How? Ok, here goes...

1) Be the wife in the day time BUT send little sexy messages during the day. Now make sure you send it to the right person. Yes you may have a flashback before you got ok let me be serious.

2) When you talk to him, change your tone. Put a little sexy in your voice. *by this time if the both of you have 8-5 jobs, make him excited about coming home*

3) Prepare dinner. If it's possible see if you can turn it into a candle light dinner. If you have kids, don't worry about the candles, put the candles in the bedroom and/or the bathroom. *now if he volunteers to help you clean up, then guess what, you have already made a difference! HA!!*

4) Now my household we don't like to have mobile devices out during dinner but if your household is different, then continue to send him the text messages. *prepare him for the night*

5) Give him the eye!!! Every man and I mean every man knows the look! Trust me ladies, it works! Hahaha

6) During dinner time, sit by him at the table and take your foot and go up and down softly on his leg. Trust me, it’s worth it!

Ok so after dinner, I'm not sure what your normal routine is but make sure you keep him wondering. If you stop, then he is going to wonder. Now by now, you should be getting ready to turn in for the night.

Ok, adult play time. You then are now the side chick. You have a different name, different personality, and a different look. This is where you then ask him what he wants. Why are you asking him because that is what the other woman does? The men pretty much tells and shows the other woman want he wants which is 95% of what the wife WON'T or DON'T do. 

Now I can't tell you what to specifically do to your husband because every man is different sexually but all men loves SEX! Give him a massage, a warm bubble bath (that you two take together), lotion/oil him down, and so much more.  So you pretty much get the idea of where this is going.  If you want to take it to the next level in just totally pleasing him, ask him for one of his fantasies.  But if you don't want to make into an intimate matter, just make sure you take time out with him.  We always want them to take time out of their schedule to be with us and do things for and with us but do we do the same for him. Ladies we must learn and start taking care of our husband.  All the "side chick" is doing is things that he wants and what you're not doing at home.  These types of women prey on married men and can't wait to find out that something is going sour in their marriage.

As I stated, you be the SIDE CHICK! Start putting him first again and watch how things get better!! Take care of your man. Make your marriage excited!! The same thing you did to get him, trust me, you have to continue to do it to keep him!

Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge!



Friday, February 14, 2014

Happy Valentine's Day!

As we take the time out to celebrate the world’s biggest love day, let’s not only say but show it.  Some things in life take a toll on us and we forget those little simple words “I love you”.  Love is an action word not just a verbal word.  Showing someone that you love them will override you telling them in any second.  Ladies, we DON’T have to wait until leap year to do for our husbands, we should have the ability to do it every day.  Think about why you married him and why you fell in love with him.


Enjoy your Valentine’s Day with your spouse and don’t be the person that only thinks that he is supposed to do something for you and that’s it.  Do something for him and make him feel loved on this day as well.  If you really love your husband, you WOULD NOT FOCUS ON THIS DAY just being about YOU.  This is a celebration between really 3 people: God, Your Husband, and You!!!

Happy Valentine’s Day!



Tuesday, February 4, 2014

Happy Anniversary to the February couples!

I just want to say "Happy Anniversary" to all of the couples that will be celebrating in the month of February. May your love, peace, happiness, and joy continue throughout the days of your marriage. Look into your spouse's eyes and tell them that you love them and that you are thankful that they are a part of your life.  Love on them. Continue to support them. Comfort them. Make it extra special!