Thursday, October 25, 2012

The ups and downs of a marriage....

First, its been a long time since I last blogged.  I promise I will be more active now!!!! :-)

Ok, if your friend comes to you and say their marriage is perfect....TRUST ME...they're not telling the truth.  No marriage is perfect.  Remember those vows you quoted, "for good or for worse, for richer or poorer, thru sickness and health, till death do us part..."; or maybe your didn't have those exact words in it but you get the idea....those words mean something.  Yes there can be days where you would want to choke each other, but deep down you still love your husband and sooner or later both of you all come back to your senses.  It is hard to remember the good things when the heat and tension is turned up....but if the good outweighs the bad, then its worth fighting for.

There are some women out there waiting for your husband to release these words...."we are separated"!!!! Fight for your marriage! Even if life you have trials and tribulation.  The devil is out to destroy anything God has ordained and put together.  Don't continue to argue if the tension is still high because things can get said to hurt the other person and it might not end pretty.  But is it truly worth it because sometimes you can't remember how it started.  If you sense this, breathe, say politely that we will talk when we have calmed down, and remember to tell your spouse you love them no matter how mad you are. 

Be blessed!!!