Thursday, July 5, 2012

Becoming a wife...

Webster's definition of a wife is as follows:
Wife-n. A woman in a marriage with a man.

Of course there are several more definitions of being a wife.  Then there is by law marriage (getting the license and having it filed in your local Probate Judge office) and common law marriage (both the man and woman have come to an agreement and live as if they are married but nothing legally is filed regarding marriage).  I am PROUDLY to say that mine is filed in the courthouse...ha ha I got papers on my husband...that's funny.  Any who.....

I got married July 10, 2010 and I can honestly say that it hasn't been the easiest but I don't think I would do it with anyone else.  I really try to be the BEST wife God has put in me to be and the BEST wife my HUSBAND need me to be.  Becoming a wife to my husband was one of the best things I have ever done in my life.  We are coming up on our 2nd year anniversary and we have 98 years to go (if the Lord don't call us home before then). 

Oddly, I try my best to stay associated with positive woman that have been married longer than I have or decent people that have just gotten married and they are positive about their marriage.  EVERYBODY is not happy that you are happy and that you are married. I don't care what they think about my marriage because if I don't have to lay down with you and/or depend on you to do anything for my marriage, then you DON'T MATTER!

Now I am going to admit that I don't know EVERYTHING about my husband and vice-versa but that kind of makes it interesting for me because it allows me to see what type of person he is.  I know some of you say well that is crazy that you don't know EVERYTHING about your husband before you all got married...Well my reply to that is, Do you know everything about yours???

How do you become a wife?  Do you go through a course?  Do you got to a Dr and lie on the couch and pay a lot of money to figure out that you are still not ready to become a wife?  Do you hang out with your girlfriends and gossip about what kind of man you want and what you are going to do when you get him?  Do you make a "What I want in a Man" list?  The list of questions can go on and on but the true answer is no one will never know...you just have to go with the flow!  (Hey that rhymed...lol)

Well gotta go for now....talk to you later!!! SMOOCHES! :-)

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